DATING TIPS FOR WOMEN

      Men are the most wonderful creatures on earth, you just need to understand males to bring out the best in them. According to Dr. John Gray author of Mars & Venus on a Date “a man feels successful when he is successful in making a woman happy” Therefore, forget about everything the media, the feminist, or your friends have ever told you about men, so you can really understand them.  To comprehend how good men feel when they make a woman happy and they are appreciated for that, I want you to practice this:

    Fix yourself the best that you can, feminine but not vulgar, and go to a public safe place like a shopping mall, a restaurant, a movie theater, etc. and wherever you are observe how attentive men are with you, appreciate them and smile. You will be fascinated to see guys everywhere you go trying to make your life easier and be happy to help you. The first time that Katy tried this she was amazed; she was truly surprised to see many men caring about her, she start seeing men with different eyes and all her relationships with men improved.  

     When practicing this exercise remember not to make the mistake to assume that they already want to pursue a romantic relationship with you. It takes quite some time for men to actually develop feelings for a woman and to want to pursue a romantic relationship with her.  I only want you to understand that men’s nature wants a lot more than just sex, they want to find a woman that they can make happy and who loves them just the way they are. However by nature men feel sexual attraction for a lot of women at the same time. For that reason it’s important that at the beginning you just be friends until he had develop feelings for you. Just don’t settle for friends with benefits. You are in charge of your romantic life as long as you don’t give sexual gratification, once you give it, you have lost your power.

     Men have been brainwashed by the media and the pop culture to be promiscuous and many of them have never had a healthy romantic relationship with one woman. They have meaningless sex with many women, but they have been missing the opportunity to find someone meaningful in their lives that makes them truly happy. Therefore, learning about men natures will help you to understand males, take the lead to bring out the best in them  and more important you will be able  to expose them to  a new fascinating world many of them don't even know. So, remember this 4 dating tips:

1) A man’s primary goal is to succeed in making a woman happy.

2) Appreciation makes him feel successful, inspires him to do more for you and makes him more attracted to you. 

3) Hold on sexual gratification to keep men interested.

4) Giving sexual gratification too soon places you in the booty call list

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND DATING

Leading the Feminine Dignification is an empowering, straightforward and inspiring self-help book for women. Even though, it’s not specific about domestic violence, it has important and substantial information to prevent it. Since, it’s easier not to get involved in abusive relationships in the first place, than to try to get out of them. Some abusers may use great sex to hook women in violent relationships; others will make women pregnant soon after they meet to abuse them. Be careful, in some states a father is not an unfit father for the merely fact of killing his wife! Yes, this happens in America and one out of three women lives in domestic violence. Know your romantic prospects well, before you become romantically or sexually involved. Date people you know from some time, not complete strangers!

IT LOOKS GOOD ON TV, BUT NOT IN REALITY

 Feminist magazines like Cosmopolitan and TV programs like Gossip Girl, and Sex in the City, among others, glamorize women’s promiscuous behavior. As a result, women are seduced by that false image of women’s sexual strength and imitate that unrestrained, restless behavior they see on the media. To later suffer the detrimental consequences like increase rate of women acquiring STD’s, more men engaging them in “modern harems"-having sexual relationships with different women on a regular basis-, divorces on the rise and high percentage of unwed mothers. In The United States every year approximately 1.7 million children  are born of sex to unwed mothers. Therefore, no just women are affected but their children too, who in many cases end up fatherless.

CAN WOMEN KEEP MEN INTERESTED WITHOUT GIVING SEXUAL GRATIFICATION?

Yes, they can. Actually, by not giving sexual gratification, women have the power to keep men interested until they develop feelings for them. Focus on appreciating him and create opportunities to ask him for his advice or help, and appreciate, appreciate, appreciate! He is going to fall for you without he even realized! Men have feelings and emotional necessities too, and one of them is appreciation. Focus on fulfilling his emotional needs to actually win his love and respect!

BE THE CHANGE THAT YOU WANT TO SEE

If you don't want men to cheat, don't cheat with any man that is taken.
If you don't want men to use you as sexual object, don't give sexual gratification.
If you don't want men to mistreat you, walk away from a negative relationship and never look back.
If you want men to be faithful to you, ditch the cheaters.
If you want  men that love you, love yourself first.

WHY MEN CHEAT

No matter what his excuse is for cheating,  a woman don't have to put up with that or he will do it even more. These are some of the reasons why men cheat:

1.      There are women wiling to cheat with them

2.      He feels he can get away with it

3.      His doesn't feel attractive anymore

4.      It's an ego booster for him

5.      He thinks it's  a men's nature to want to spread their seed

6.      He doesn't love her anymore, but he is afraid to be alone

7.      His partner it's not attractive anymore

8.      He doesn't get enough sex at home

When you are in a commited relationship make  sure to take care of  your body, eat healthy and do exercise. And remember  to give your partner all the sex that he needs. So, he feels desired, loved and understood, that way you know that you did your best and have no regrets!

SEX AND MORE SEX

Women have been brainwashed by the media and the feminist ideas to be vulgar, promiscuous and aggressive to achieve men and women sexual equality; when in reality they are encouraging men to use them as a sexual objects and unpaid prostitutes. In addition to that, the pop culture is advertising and promoting a negative behavior in men by encouraging them to take advantage of women and have sex with many women on a regular basis. Young women are taking it as normal, and no, it's not normal, no, it's not right' and definitely it's not healthy, nor physical, neither emotionally. It we don't create awareness in women  we are going to have another epidemic disease like AIDS taking new lives and this time our young generations will be the ones at a greatest risk. In 2009 we had the highest rate of STD's ever registered affecting women (15 to 25 years of age), the highest ever reported for any condition. Right now the spread of HIV is controlled because it's a criminal act to infect another person with the virus, if convicted the transmitter can face up to 8 years in jail. It took decades and millions of deaths before scientist found the secret to allow this people to live a bit longer.