Tina Turner was physical abused for about 14 years, Whitney Houston was emotionally and physically abused for about 20 years or more, and they both wanted to help their husband Tina said “everybody had left him, I wanted to be there for him” Whitney said “he was my husband, I have to be there for him” These abusive men are adults, they are the only ones that can help themselves, no one else. These women allowed the abuser to victimize them, when trying to be their heroines. Don’t make the same mistake! You cannot help anyone but yourself, abusers, drug addicts, alcoholics and cheaters will drag you into the same dark hole that they are in.
A romantic partner is like a business investment, you don't invest in a company that has problems. Look for a healthy, peaceful and respectful man that adores you and shows you his love. If you are already in love but he doesn’t make you happy remember that it’s better to walk away at the beginning that after years of misery. It takes half of the time you were in a relationship to heal your heart, and forget about that person. So, the sooner you end an unhealthy relationship the sooner you will get over. It doesn’t matter if he was your first boyfriend, your first love and you know him since you were wearing pampers. Fact is, you were born alone and you have been happy that way for years. So, you will come back to your natural state and you will be yourself again, but definitely a lot emotionally stronger!
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